The Adam & Eve Finger Pointing Syndrome
Quote of the week:Â
“All blame is a waste of time. No matter how much fault you find with another, and regardless of how much you blame him, it will not change you. The only thing blame does is to keep the focus off you when you are looking for external reasons to explain your unhappiness or frustration. You may succeed in making another feel guilty about something by blaming him, but you won’t succeed in changing whatever it is about you that is making you unhappy.”
– Wayne Dyer, Teacher
This is one of the most meaningful quote i have ever read.
When things don’t move in the way we want it, we blame others.
When some things go terribly wrong, we look for someone to blame.
When our internet marketing business ain’t getting us the desirable income we want, we choose to blame it on our spouse, our dog, lack of time … the list goes on and on and on…
When can we stop that ‘Adam & Eve’ finger pointing syndrome and start to look inside us when things go wrong?
Could it be something that we have not done right that cause our failure and frustration?Â
Most of time, when we look deep inside us, we can often find the answer to our failure and frustration.  All we have to is do is to take responsiblity of the situation, learn from it and move on in life.
Happiness is a choice we can choose and is independent of our current situation or circumstance. If we choose happiness more often than sadness, then it will become habitual and we will find ourselves more happy than ever regardless of anything that happen around us.
